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Finding a sex toy can be like finding a needle in a haystack. There are so many different options, and each can offer something unique. Fortunately, we might be able to help you with a few tips.

How to choose your first dildo

Choosing your first dildo can be tricky. You don’t know what to expect and what your options are. Big toys can seem scary, while the small ones look like they won’t be able to do the job. Ideally, you will go for a toy that’s flexible since it will allow you a certain level of freedom of movement.

They are comfortable, easy to use, and they aren’t as threatening as other rigid materials. Furthermore, there are many sex toys you can find with unusual shapes and designs, but we would recommend going for a realistic dildo instead.

This is why an inflatable dildo might be your best option. You can easily adjust the size; it’s made of softer material, and it is comfortable to use. It is a perfect option for beginners who still have to learn more about sex toys.

Dildo at its finest

Getting a toy with an adjustable size seems like a dream come true. You will get an all-in-one package, and you can change the size however you please. It will also allow you to get used to the sensation and feeling of the toy and gradually increase the size as you go.

More importantly, since the toy is inflatable, it’s made of softer materials, which are perfect for beginners. Rigid toys can be quite unforgiving, and beginners will be discouraged by the lack of flexibility and movement.

The design of the toy is simple. You will get a pump that you control with your hand, and you can adjust the size of the toy once it’s inside. The best thing is that you don’t even have to inflate it at first. Once you start experimenting with different sizes, we would recommend testing the toy first. See how much it can expand while it’s out, so you know what to expect once you start playing with it.

Things to consider when choosing dildos

If you are looking for something a bit different, there are a couple of guidelines we can give you. They will help you choose the toy you enjoy and find the model that’s perfect for your needs and preferences.


One of the first things to consider when picking a sex toy is its size. As you probably know, dildos come in all shapes and sizes. They can be anywhere from a couple of inches all the way to monster dildos that are over ten inches long.

Needless to say, it is always recommended to go for the smallest option if you are inexperienced. This way, you can get to know what internal stimulation feels like as well as what to expect from this type of toy. Once you get comfortable with it, you can start working your way up toward bigger models.

Types of material

We have already mentioned materials, and the safest option for beginner dildos is to go for toys made of silicone. Silicone dildos are soft; they feel like a real thing, and they are quite comfortable. Furthermore, you can easily clean them; they are body-safe and work well with any type of lubricant, except silicone-based ones.

The other options you can check out are glass and stainless-steel toys, but we wouldn’t recommend these for beginners. Of course, you can pick any material you like as long as it’s made from body-safe materials as they won’t collect bacteria and cause you an allergic reaction.


If you are looking to buy your first sex toy, you probably want it to be pretty. Fortunately, there are plenty of different choices when buying a dildo. These are the most popular toys you can find, and the options are limitless.

You can go safe and buy a realistic-looking one or go crazy with some weird unusual designs. In the past couple of years, there has been a rise in the popularity of alien and animal dildos. The shape of the toy can affect the way it feels, and you can choose whatever you like. The only important thing to remember is to keep an eye on the size and materials of the toy.

Type of sensation

Realistic-looking toys are quite fun, but you can find models that offer so much more. One of the unwritten rules of sex toys is that you can find a vibrating one for every type out there. Vibrating dildos are a great choice since it is super easy to reach an orgasm with one.

They are similar to bullet vibrators, except that you use them as a regular dildo. Other options include toys with patterns, shapes, dildos designed for temperature play, etc.

Lubes and dildos are meant to be

One of the things to remember is that lubes and dildos are best friends. They are a match made in heaven, and it would be a sin to separate them. Water-based lube works well with different materials, it’s great for anal play, and it’s safe for your body.

It will allow you to have an excellent experience, and of course, lube can make things a lot smoother. You can use a silicone-based lubricant as well as long as the toy is not made of silicone. Using lube is especially important for beginners since it will prevent irritations and make the whole experience a lot more enjoyable.

Sexy ways to start with your Inflatable dildo

You can use inflatable dildos alone or with your partner. Regardless of the option you choose, ensure that the toy is clean before you start using it. We should also mention again that you should practice using the pump before you insert the toy to prevent any problems.

Using the toy is quite simple, but owning one from Lovegasm will make it more extraordinary. Create a perfect mood for your big night. Dim the lights, use candles or whatever makes you feel excited and romantic.

Even if you are using it by yourself, there is no reason for you to make it feel like an everyday activity. Each masturbation session can be a special event if you make it feel like it.